I had a conversation with a gf this morning about bf's trashing gf's self esteem in order to make sure she doesnt looks around and knows that she belongs to him? whats your thought about that?
that type of guys just feeling insecured about himself which makes him can't open up to love in confidence. He might have hurt before and had the same treat from another gal. well, it needs more time to show these type of guys you're interested and help him through if you wish...
No one is perfect in this world and life is a life-long lesson which 1 day they can reach the perfection, but encouragement, patience and understanding would help everything to do better..
Hu, I would see this more strict. If I would be the gf I would leave immediately. What is the end of the story? Do not like to imagine this poor gf then. The bf is "playing" with psycho and could hurt, "destroy" a sensitive person. This can cause long lasting damage in her life. I.e. job, new relationship, life pressure in general etc. Hope I am wrong though and it is (and will not be)not so serious.
I guess it is a form of abuse, possibly from former relationships or just personal issues. but what if the girl is one of those super-confident type and should be toning down her arrogance anyway, maybe it's not such a bad thing after all cos they are both bad!